Love/ Domination
By all accounts, relationship seen as a business transaction is not a cure for insomnia…loneliness spawns insecurity- but relationship seems to do nothing else. In a relationship, you may feel as insecure as without it, or worse. Only the names you give your anxiety change.
Further more, once insecurity creeps in, navigation is never confident, thoughtful and steady. Rudderless, the frail raft of relationship sways between one and the other of the two ill-famed rocks on which many a partnership flounders: total submission and total power, meek acceptance and arrogant conquest, effacing one’s own autonomy and stifling the autonomy of the partner.
Zygmunt Bauman
Just Cohabiting- Duncan Dormor
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