Saturday, January 22, 2011

God forbade...must reading!

Control freak






  In psychology related slang a control freak tries to dictate how everything around them is done. Psychologist Les Parrott says they care more than you do about something and won't stop being pushy to get their way.



  The control freak sees their constant intervention beneficial, even necessary. This caused by feelings of superiority, believing others incapable of handling matters properly. They might simply enjoy the feeling of power, they automatically try to gain control of everything around them. Corporate control freaks publicly scold inferiors in front of everyone.



  Narcissistic leadership is common. Its driven by unyielding arrogance, self-absorption and a personal egotistic need for power and admiration.



  A journal study finds when a group is without a leader, you can count on a narcissist to take charge. Freud considered the narcissist to act as a support, to take on the role of the leaders. He impresses others to being personalities, to look to find, in the narcissist, all you are lacking , as if we envied them for having the blissful state of mind- an unassailable instinctive position, we ourselves, have since abandoned.



  Narcissistic leadership is not about originals, only reproductions. The narcissitic leader prefers the sparkle and glamour of well-orchestrated illusions to the tedium and method of real accomplishment. This leads, inevitably, to a deterioration in the organization's performance, though they spout company loyalty, are only commited to their own agendas.



  The borderline personality can not integrate good and bad images of both, self and others. Those with this disorder have a good representation dominated by a bad one, experience love and sexuality in perverse, violent qualities, not able to integrate with the tender, intimate side of relationships.



  Narcissitic personality disorder use 'splitting', one of several defense mechanisms. By viewing themselves purely good, others seen to not amount to much, their self-esteem is preserved.



  A split of the ego into a superficial part that knows the truth and a deeper part that denies it... may be common to all.



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