Criticism
Many are very thin-skinned and easily bruised, just a pinball in the game of life, when it comes to receiving criticism.
There are several methods in giving constructive criticism, not likely to trigger bad feelings.
Requests go a long way in getting cooperation than snide remarks, put downs or veiled demands.
Instead of pointing out something negative in the present, request specific change in the future.
Another kind of constructive criticism is called the sandwich method, criticism is sandwiched between two positive comments. You don’t have to be degreed to read between the lines, its written on the wall.
"You did a great job at the start, but the middle section and end are a little weak. With a little more work, I'm sure you can tighten it up."
Of course, you know how you say things matters as much as what you say.
Keep in mind giving criticism is a skill that, like all skills, can be mastered through learning and practice.
in Think Well
Psychology Today
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