True Attraction
This doctor understands physical appearance is not the only aspect of ourselves that is found attractive. Our personalities can influence how others see us. In addition, our confidence and social skills can spark attraction, passion, and intrigue in potential lovers.
Dr. Nicholson has discovered unchangeable parts of our looks were not driving attraction, anyway! Contrary to popular belief, a symmetrical nose, the perfect body, or a classic face are not nearly as important as the aspects of yourself that are easy to change. The little things under your control are the most attractive characteristics of all.
Research went into what combinations really made someone attractive.
They wanted to discover the relative importance of stable features, body frame and height, versus changeable features, grooming and clothing in physical attractiveness.
The most attractive features fell under the category of self care. These features were the changeable aspects like good grooming, neat hair, nice fitting clothing, good posture, otherwise, healthy . Essentially, the most attractive features about another, from both, is they put forth some effort to shower, groom, select some nice clothes, stand up straight, and look fit. No plastic surgery, major gym time, or extensive overhauling required.
Coming in at only one-third as important as self care were three other feature clusters, masculinity, femininity, and pleasantness.
Masculinity, somewhat attractive to women, was comprised of some of the stable features, muscularity, shoulder width, larger chest, and a bigger jaw.
Femininity, somewhat attractive to men, contained more changeable features of wearing makeup, longer hair, and greater femininity in posture and body language.
Finally, pleasantness, somewhat attractive to both men and women, was all about being happy, positive, and friendly in attitude.
The majority of features important to attractiveness are relatively easy to change. Just grooming, standing up straight, wearing decent clothes, and staying relatively healthy makes you attractive! Beyond that, being positive, pleasant, and friendly are not always in good supply.
No implants, botox, nose jobs, or facelifts required...
Psychology Today
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