Kissing
Kissing is the key to love. Kiss well and you may find yourself with a partner for life, or the night. Smooch spectacularly and you can keep a relationship strong over time, too. However, if you slobber, drool, or forget your mouthwash...you can kiss it all goodbye.
Kissing makes-or-breaks love at times.
In a study of undergraduate students on kissing behavior. They found,
Both men and women use kissing to decide on a potential partner. Good kissers are more likely to get chosen as partners. Bad kissing, in contrast, the deal is off.
Good kissing leads to feelings of bonding and attachment, too. Sharing a smooch creates and keeps a feeling of connectedness in relationships. This is important early in a relationship and over time.
Good kissing can also lead to arousal and sex. Passionate make-outs are often necessary and effective precursors to further physical intimacy. Done right, kissing is sexy, arousing...and can help you get intimate with a new partner or an established mate.
Overall, a good kiss appeared more important to women than men. Women more likely to use kissing as a way to bond and to look for kisses throughout a relationship. Women less likely to kiss when they feel a partner only wants sex and nothing more.
Remember hygiene, the rest is in the pudding. Other findings,
Kiss to prove yourself and test a partner, Kiss to connect and bond, Kiss to arouse and seduce.
Psychology Today
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