Monday, December 26, 2011

god forbade...must reading

Bad Boys


   Bad boys, men as crafty rogues that take advantage of the tendencies and weaknesses of many women.


    Authors assert women are choosing poor husbands and that corrective knowledge would solve the problem.


    The media, music, movies, television and the internet have taught generations of young men that deceiving women is the proper way to conduct courtship and marriage. It is unfair to blame women for foolish choices when even some of the kindest, most religious and moral young men use the same deceptive dating technique as the worst of women haters.


   Boys are taught at an early age to stuff their feelings to get what they want. They are encouraged to bring this same strategy to courtship and marriage. These mirage men gain the goal of a romance at the cost of true intimacy.


    Women are taught that the problem with relationships is once again their fault, their expectations are too high. Women are continually blamed in these times for the failure of romances when it is a shared responsibility.



Psychology Today

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